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Breastfeed Your Man???
Ask a group of men how they feel about
breastfeeding and you are likely to get different answers. Different
still will be the secret opinions and fantasies of men. What does
your man really
think about your lactating breasts?
The intellectual guy: This guy
knows all the benefits for babies and is not embarrassed to talk
about it. He thinks it is great and is proud of his partner.
While she is nursing, he tends to think of her breasts as
“baby feeders” more than pleasure objects. He doesn’t mind that she wears
a bra during intimate moments and may avoid touching her breasts in a sexual way.
He finds his partner sexy, but focuses on other parts of her anatomy
as though her breasts are reserved for the baby or are somehow
sacred.
The mad scientist: He wants to know how it looks, how it
smells, and how it tastes. How far can you shoot your milk across the
room? Will it hit the ceiling? Can you hit the cat with it as
she runs by? This guy doesn’t mind if milk leaks on him during sex. In
fact, he likes to take credit for making it happen. He has done
a complete study of the changes in his partner’s breasts and he is
fascinated with the change in size. He’s not afraid to touch them
and not afraid of what comes out of them. He may frustrate his
partner by being a little too interested.
The guy with a fetish:
This is the guy you might assume wasn’t breastfed. Not only is he
fascinated with his partner’s lactating breasts, he is turned on by
the thought of suckling them. He may keep these fantasies to himself
or he may share them with his partner. He may feel jealousy toward
the baby and territorial about his partner’s breasts.
The gourmet:
He likes the taste.
This isn’t necessarily a sexual thing. He just likes the flavor. He may
gain weight right along with the baby while his partner is lactating. He may
like it directly from the source or mixed with other foods (especially coffee).
Although these secret opinions and fantasies
are rarely discussed publicly, there is nothing wrong with a curious interest
by your supportive partner. It won't hurt him to try your
milk, just don't let him get carried away and take more than
his fair share. Your baby's needs come first.
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